To add to my dilemma my wife and I have reproduced. Our daughter just had her first birthday a few weeks ago. I remember my dad telling me that you will never know how much I love you until you have your own kids. I can say I understand that now. She gives my wife and I common ground as well. We quite literally enjoy talking about everything that she does. Though enjoyable, I wonder how sustainable and fulfilling these conversations are. Not just for me but for my spouse too. Where do we go from here?